My most borrowed book is…

NOT faith…

NOT on financial excellence…

Not on leadership..

It's....

a book on DATING: Boy meets Girl! Haha.

And it’s been borrowed until become jiam chai( battle-scarred) already. *Roar* my precious book is gone already, I'm going to bite!


But well, at least it’s getting good mileage. Hah…

Amusing, but practical la. Boy Meets Girl is a book on how a couple should deal with a relationship from the time of courtship till marriage. It touches on how any guy and girl should maneuver in a way that a courtship is purposeful and is moving toward something real, rather than just getting steady for the sake of feeling good and high..

I was telling my cell leader the other day; we’re really all at this age where it’s time for the birds to meet the bees, so it’s best that we address the topic before MTV gets to their heads.

And in fact, I think it’s a good thing that my friends start getting it from me. Haha at least everyone’s trying to find out God’s opinion on their second half rather than trying to understand a relationship through soap operas, fairy tales or MTV, I think it’s good to get a mature, godly perspective on how to approach a relationship.

I remember Xiaohui ( Don’t kill me if you read this) that day was also buying the audio CD by pastor on ‘Choosing the right partner for life’. HAHA. Caught in the act on buying! She told me not to laugh when I saw the title of the CD.

But I’m glad she wants to know, and I asked to borrow it when she’s done. Heh.

Anyway when I thinking about it one day, I realized that there’s one thing that really makes a girl attractive to me. It’s her spirituality.Clarification: Not her religiosity, but spirituality.

I realized that when I see a girl wanting to lay down her life for a cause, making a decision to love God more, taking more responsibility in the cell group. The attractiveness factor goes up. This is what Mingli told me before, that spirituality does make a person more attractive.

So well, anyway, I think that applies to every guy in church in general, not just me. Of course, besides the spiritual side, we look at the natural side as well. Like.. Same height or not, physically attracted to each other or not. The usual. Haha.

But back to it! Yes! It's a superb book for anyone who's ready for a serious relationship, whether you're Christian or not. Don't learn how to do it the wrong way from TV, learn the right way from people who have done it right!

My book's still on loan though, and someone just 'booked' the book again. When will I ever see that book again. Haha...